Wendy Holmes, BACP
Insightful counsellor supporting relationships and trauma recovery
About Wendy
Wendy Holmes is a counsellor working from the United Kingdom who supports people dealing with relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy concerns and the stress of life changes. She also helps with anxiety, depression, parenting and family concerns, and difficulties such as low self-esteem, anger and work-related strain.
Wendy lists Somatic approaches among her methods and aims to meet people where they are. She keeps sessions straightforward and collaborative.
Background and approach
Conversations focus on what matters most to the client and on practical steps they can try between sessions. Worksheets, reflective discussion and body-based noticing may all be used depending on what feels helpful. Wendy is registered with the BACP, which is recorded as her credential.
She has four years of experience working with a broad range of issues, including complex trauma, relationship-focused anxiety and life-stage challenges such as menopause. Her background includes training in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, attachment-informed work and client-centred ways of working. She also draws on cognitive behavioural ideas and narrative approaches to help people see different perspectives.
This mix lets her adapt to each person’s needs. Sessions are offered via video calls, phone, live chat or text messaging to suit varied schedules. Therapy uses a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time, and session cost varies with location and therapist availability.
To begin, a person selects the Start Therapy button and completes a short matching questionnaire before scheduling.
How Somatic and Acceptance-based Work Can Help Online
Somatic work pays attention to how stress and feelings show up in the body. It uses simple grounding and body-awareness exercises to help people notice physical sensations linked to emotion, which can be useful for trauma, anxiety and chronic stress.Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people clarify their values and take small actions that match those values. It uses mindfulness and practical tasks to reduce avoidance and build a more meaningful day-to-day life.
Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns shape current connections. It helps people explore trust, intimacy and communication habits so they can try new ways of relating in present relationships.
Finding the best approach is a joint effort. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and practical needs and adapt methods accordingly. That means sessions can draw on somatic noticing, ACT exercises or attachment-focused conversation depending on what helps most.
Online sessions offer flexibility and access. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation, while phone, live chat and text messaging suit people who prefer shorter or more frequent contact. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, caring responsibilities and daily life, and let people try different formats to see what feels right.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
Also works with
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Stress, Anxiety
- Traumatic brain injury
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 4 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English