About Ruth
Ruth Stoan is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with 35 years of clinical experience. She helps people who are facing stress, anxiety, grief, depression, relationship trouble, addiction concerns, and life transitions. Ruth often focuses on questions of identity and meaning, especially when clients are navigating major life changes.
Ruth draws on somatic ideas alongside talk-based methods to help people notice how emotions show up in the body. She uses practical methods such as mindfulness, breath work, and imagery to help clients calm their nervous system and gain clearer perspective.
Background and approach
Sessions move at a steady, humane pace so people can practice new skills between meetings. Her background includes work in independent practice and community agencies, where she supported people with addictions, family role changes, and aging-related matters. Ruth holds a Master of Arts in Counseling from the University of Missouri-Kansas City and maintains a Missouri LPC license, MO LPC 000702.
In sessions she and the client set goals together and build a simple plan to reach them. Ruth combines cognitive tools and emotion-focused work so clients can change habits that keep them stuck. She also offers coaching-style support for career and life-direction questions.
Ruth offers video sessions, phone calls, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules. She accepts international clients and conducts therapy in English. To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule according to availability.
How somatic and talk approaches work online
Ruth blends somatic ideas with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Client-Centered Therapy to support change. Somatic work helps people notice bodily signals - tension, breath, or grounding - and use simple practices to shift those sensations. This can be helpful for anxiety, trauma-related tension, and stress. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on values and small actions; it helps people move toward a meaningful life even while difficult feelings remain. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes a warm, nonjudgmental relationship so clients feel heard and understood.Finding the right mix of methods is part of the process. Ruth collaborates with each person to choose techniques that match their goals and comfort level. She will check in often and adjust the plan based on what is working and what is not.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video sessions let therapist and client read facial expressions and body signals, which supports somatic work. Phone, chat, and text give flexible options for people with tight schedules or different comfort levels. These formats make it easier to fit therapy into daily life while still working on concrete skills and goals.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Relationship issues
- Self-love
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 35 years
- Licensed
- Missouri
- Languages
- English