Paula Appleton, BACP, NCPS
Experienced counsellor combining body and talking therapies
About Paula
Paula Appleton is a counsellor with 14 years of experience offering a practical, person-focused approach. She works from the United Kingdom and uses a blend of therapies to match the needs of each person.
Paula is listed with BACP and NCPS and can work with Deaf and hard of hearing people using British Sign Language and SSE at qualifying levels mentioned in her background. She draws on somatic ideas alongside cognitive and acceptance-based methods.
Background and approach
That means she pays attention to body sensations as well as thoughts and values when helping people manage stress, anxiety, trauma or addiction. Sessions are shaped around what a person brings and what helps them feel safer and more able to cope.
Paula commonly supports people with depression, grief, relationship and intimacy concerns, eating and sleeping problems, anger, low self-esteem and parenting strain. She also works with neurodiversity related issues such as autism and ADHD and with long-term health or caregiving stress. Her practice includes work on abandonment, attachment difficulties and body image concerns.
Therapy typically involves listening, practical exercises and small changes to daily routines. Techniques can include cognitive-behavioural strategies, acceptance and commitment ideas, attachment-focused conversations and body-aware practices. Paula adapts pace and methods to suit each person’s history and current needs.
Sessions are offered in English and American Sign Language. International clients can be seen, and online options make it possible to work from different locations. To begin, clients follow the site’s Start Therapy process to match and schedule sessions.
How Paula uses different approaches in online therapy
Paula combines somatic-informed work with acceptance and attachment ideas to help people in accessible online sessions. Somatic work pays attention to body sensations and breathing, which can help when stress or trauma shows up physically. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on values and small actions that move a person towards what matters, useful for anxiety, depression and coping with life changes.Attachment-Based Therapy looks at patterns from past relationships and how they affect current connections and trust. Paula uses this to gently map relationship habits and to help people try new responses in day-to-day life. She approaches this as a collaborative process and will review methods with each person to find what fits best.
Finding the right approach is part of therapy. Paula will work with clients to choose methods based on their needs, goals and preferences. That collaboration may shift over time as different tools become more useful.
Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging, which gives flexibility for different schedules and comfort levels. These formats make it easier to access therapy from different locations and allow people to use the way of communicating that feels most supportive to them.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hearing impaired
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Trauma and abuse
- Traumatic brain injury
- Trichotillomania
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Gottman Method
- Jungian Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
- Systemic Therapy
- Experience
- 14 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English, American Sign Language