About Gayle
Gayle Nykerk-Jones is a counsellor with ten years of professional experience in the United Kingdom. She works in a respectful and compassionate way and aims to make the first conversations feel manageable for someone under stress or worry. She supports people facing depression, anxiety and stress.
She also helps those coping with grief, addictions and changes such as bereavement or major life transitions. Her work includes supporting people with focus, concentration and memory concerns and those with neurodivergent needs like late-diagnosed autism and ADHD.
Background and approach
Gayle uses a mix of talking and body-aware methods to help people notice how thoughts, feelings and physical sensation connect. She adapts sessions to each person, listening first and agreeing clear, practical steps together. Sessions are grounded and straightforward, aimed at small, achievable changes rather than complex jargon.
Her approach draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy alongside attachment-focused and client-centred ways of working. These methods inform simple tools for mood, worry and relationships. Somatic ideas are also used to help people tune into bodily signals and calm physical stress.
Gayle is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. She offers sessions by video, phone, live chat and text-based messaging so people can choose what suits them best. To begin, a short matching questionnaire helps pair people with an appropriate schedule.
Therapeutic approaches for online and body-aware work
Gayle often combines Somatic ideas with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. Somatic work encourages people to notice bodily sensations and how they relate to stress, helping with issues such as anxiety, sleep and physical reactions to grief. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice unhelpful thoughts, clarify values and take small steps towards a life they want.She also draws on Attachment-Based and Client-Centred ways of working to help people explore relationship patterns and feel heard. These approaches shape a collaborative process where the therapist and client test what fits best and agree practical steps together based on goals and preferences.
Online therapy is offered by video, phone, live chat or text-based messaging which makes sessions more flexible around work, caregiving and mobility. These formats let people choose paced, shorter or more frequent contact depending on need, and they make it easier to continue work during life changes or relocation. Gayle will discuss which format suits your needs and help adapt tools and exercises to the online setting.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
Also works with
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Jungian Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Systemic Therapy
- Experience
- 10 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English